This week there’s been lots of news, and lots of flu. There’s also a lot of talk about the segregated bus lines in Jerusalem, which deserves its own post. Same for the horrifying trend of men murdering their wives. I will hopefully cover both those topics independently in coming posts. In the meantime, just to catch up, here’s a quick round-up of other gender news: * Women in the wedding hall. Debra Nussbaum Cohen shares a list handed out to women at a recent family wedding with all the rules about how to dress. “In the wedding hall lobby were photocopied leaflets with the words “For Women” handwritten at the top, titled ‘Wouldn’t It Be Wonderful If:’ with a 15-item checklist: • My skirts cover at least 4 inches below my knee. • I would sew up all the slits: at the sides, front and back of my dresses, robes and skirts. • My snood…/turban completely covers my hair at all times and my crocheted snoods would be fully lined in the proper way. • I wouldn’t walk outside with a long robe on Shabbat, even at night. • I would apply perfume in extreme moderation, so that a person walking by will not notice it. • I would walk in a quiet, natural and pleasant manner which does not catch the eye or attract undue attention (Loud Footsteps)…” Ah, the things women are supposed to do to themselves…. * Jewish girls self-descructing. Leslie Goldman at the Huffington Post continues a series on the struggles of Jewish girls. “Jewish girls in particular — face in our society and culture, with a focus on eating disorders, drugs, alcohol, cutting, and other self-harming behaviors. Some hot-button areas: Do more Jewish girls suffer from eating disorders and if so, what aspects of our culture serve to muck up our relationship with food?” Very important topic, and I highly recommend following her whole series. * Jewish professional women and the pay lag. And what does the Jewish community do to women? Not pay them, not promote them, not treat them with proper professional respect. According to an important and much-needed research report by the Forward, “Despite notable gains for women in the past year, a Forward survey of 75 major American Jewish communal organizations found that fewer than one in six are run by women, and those women are paid 61 cents to every dollar earned by male leaders. The numbers are especially striking when compared with the overall composition of the Jewish communal work force. Women comprise about 75% of those employed by federations, advocacy and social service organizations, and religious and educational institutions, but occupy only 14.3% of the top positions. Of the 11 female leaders identified in this survey, three are in interim roles.” * And women in comedy. It’s not just not-for-profit, women are also lagging way behind in comedy. Comedienne Lauren Antler on The JWA Blog writes: “Assuming that “making it” defines “women” being “in comedy” then we are not...